How to Pivot Without Burning Out. Advice from a Surgeon Turned Coach

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Let’s Be Real. Pivoting Sounds Sexy… Until You’re the One Doing It

The LinkedIn post says, “I left my 10-year career to chase my passion!” And you’re sitting there thinking, That’s cool — but how the hell did they pay rent in month three?

Pivoting sounds exciting in theory. Reinvention, new direction, freedom. But here’s the truth no one tells you: career pivots can be emotionally brutal, especially when you’re burnt out before you even begin.

I get it. I’ve been there. Not metaphorically. Literally.

Before I became a leadership coach and strategist, I was a cardiac surgeon. And I didn’t leave because I failed. I left because I was winning and miserable.

So if you’re standing on the edge of a career change, exhausted but craving something more, here’s what I wish someone had told me when I was in the thick of it.

First: Burnout Isn’t the Time to Make Big Decisions. It’s the Time to Breathe

When you’re burnt out, everything feels like an exit plan. Your brain screams, “Anything but this.” That’s dangerous. Because burnout makes even a good future look like a bad idea. You’re tired, emotionally fried, and more reactive than strategic.

Let me be blunt:

Don’t pivot as an escape. Pivot from a place of clarity.

It’s okay to want out. But give yourself the space to stabilise first. That might look like:

  • Taking a temporary sabbatical
  • Asking for a role change
  • Working with a coach or therapist to process the emotional load

Burnout distorts perception. Recovery brings it back into focus.

Why Pivots Burn People Out (When They’re Supposed to Be Energising)

Here’s the ironic twist: many people burn out again during a career pivot.

Why?

Because instead of doing it strategically, they:

  • Quit abruptly without a plan
  • Take on too many “maybe” projects
  • Try to replicate old habits in a new space
  • Feel guilt for not “having it all figured out”
  • Think they’re supposed to rebuild overnight

Let me say this clearly:

Career pivots are not sprints. They’re re-architectures and that takes time, energy, and grace.

What I Learned Pivoting From Surgery to Strategy

When I left medicine, people thought I was crazy. I had the title. The respect. The income. The “you made it” job. But internally? I was unravelling. Quietly. Privately. I didn’t want to abandon ambition,  I just knew there was more out there.

So, I didn’t just quit. I recalibrated. I asked:

  • What am I actually great at that isn’t dependent on my job title?
  • What would I still enjoy doing if no one clapped?
  • What do I want my days to look like, not just my resume?

That’s when the real pivot began, not just in title, but in direction. I moved from cardiac surgery to Big 4 consulting, then into a managing director role at an international corporation. Each step was a recalibration of new industries, new geographies, and eventually a new life in Dubai. From there, I pivoted again, this time into career and leadership consulting, not because I needed something to do, but because I needed a way to lead and live that actually aligned with who I wanted to become.

Now, I help others make pivots that are grounded, thoughtful, and energy-giving, not just ego-protecting.

Pivoting Smart. What Works

If you’re at the beginning of a pivot (or dreaming of one), here’s what I recommend:

1. Stabilise Before You Strategise

Give yourself space to rest and reflect. Your nervous system needs it. Your clarity depends on it.

2. Audit Your Identity

Strip away the title. What’s underneath? Are you a builder? A communicator? A strategist? An advocate? This is your transferable gold.

3. Start With Experiments, Not Endings

Try things before you torch your current path.

  • Side projects
  • Consulting gigs
  • Shadowing or mentoring in a new field
  • Online workshops or certifications

Test before you leap. The data will guide you.

4. Watch the Narrative

Pivots come with shame, especially for high-achievers. You might feel like you’re “wasting your potential” or “starting over.” You’re not. You’re redirecting momentum, not erasing history.

Common Fears | Normal, But Not Always True

“What will people think?” Honestly? People think about themselves 95% of the time. The other 5%? They admire courage.

“What if I fail?” You might. But you might also finally feel like yourself again. Isn’t that worth the risk?

“I’m too far along to pivot.” You’re not. You’re just more experienced, which gives you more leverage.

Final Thoughts: You Don’t Need to Leap. You Need a Ladder.

Burnout clouds your brilliance. Pivots can feel lonely. But you don’t have to do it all at once, and you definitely don’t have to do it alone.

I’ve helped surgeons become speakers, executives become consultants, and burnt-out leaders rediscover the spark they buried under decades of proving themselves.

If you’re ready to explore what’s next without crashing first, let’s talk. Book a Discovery Call. We’ll build your next chapter without burning down your soul in the process.

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